ACTIONABLE LEARNING...

ACTIONABLE LEARNING ................

 

1:- If the Road is Beautiful then, Worry About the  Destination, But if the Destination is Beautiful, Then Don't Worry About The Road!
 
2:- We Always Feel that GOD Never comes on Time when We Call Him...But the Truth is ~ "He is Always on Time" But "We are Always in Hurry!
 
3:- Trust the One Who can See, These Three Things in You ~Sorrow Behind Your SMILE, Love Behind Your ANGER & Reason Behind Your SILENCE!
 
4:- Beautiful things Are not Always Good ~ But Good  things are Always Beautiful!
 
5:- Never Miss First  Opportunity,  because the Second Opportunity Will be Much More Difficult than First!
 
6:- Dreams Aren't those That You Have when You are  Asleep, Dreams are Those that Don't Let You Sleep till They are Fulfilled!
 
7:- It’s Purity of Heart that Matters, Not the External Appearance. Because Helping Hands are Always, Better than Praying Lips.
 
8:- No one could actually say that deserve  better. Because the best thing that you deserve, will always be your choice.
 
9:- When your Time is Good, Your Mistakes are taken As a Joke! But When Your Time is Bad, Even your Jokes are Noticed as Mistakes!
 
10:- We Judge Ourselves By what We Feel we're Capable of Doing, While Others Judge us By what We have Already Done!
 
11:- If you damage the character of another, you damage your own.
 
12:- LAUGH like You have Never Cried, PLAY like You have Never Lost, LOVE like You have Never Hurt And LIVE like There is No Tomorrow!
 
13:- Two Things that Define SUCCESS In LIFE: - The Way You Manage when You Have Nothing & Way You Behave when You Have Everything!
 
14:- Don't concentrate on what Someone Else can Do that you Can not , Concentrate on What You can Do That Others Cannot.
 
15:- Never be too proud of who You are & What Position you Hold Because After a Game of Chess The King & The Pawns are tossed Into The Same Box

When you love someone

When you love someone so deep inside,
It seems like it's so easy to hide.
You've loved her for so very long,
You would think she could do no wrong.

 

Every day you would hope and pray,
That she would always stay this way.
She treated you like you should be treated,
You thought your life was finally completed.

 

You thought your love was growing true,
And then one day it was all so blue.
She started putting you down and it hurt,
You thought all you were to her was dirt.

 

She started ignoring you and you wondered why,
All you wanted to do was curl up and die.
You thought your relationship would never end,
But that was all so fake and pretend.

 

One day She was so sweet to you,
You thought all those things were maybe untrue,
Two days later she was back the same,
You thought you were the one to blame.

 

She thought the relationship was getting too serious
And that you had become a little too curious.
By this time you knew it wouldn't last,
All the nice things She said were in the past.

 

You thought that you would marry her some day,
But this time God wanted to get her way.
You wanted things back how they were before,
But you knew this couldn't happen anymore.

 

It was a Wednesday morning about 3 o'clock,
You heard the news and it wasn't a shock.
You knew this was going to happen soon,
As you laid there and cried in the pale lit moon.

Different Stages of Sex (Spicy Jokes)

SEX PENSION 

Two men were talking.
'So, how's your sex life?'
'Oh, nothing special.
I'm having Pension sex.'
'Pension sex?'
'Yeah, you know;
I get a little each month,
But not enough to live on!'

LOUD SEX

A wife went in to see a therapist and said,
'I've got a big problem, doctor.
Every time we're in bed
And my husband climaxes,
He lets out this ear splitting yell.'

'My dear,' the shrink said,
'that's completely natural.
I don't see what the problem is.'
'The problem is,' she complained,
'it wakes me up!'

QUIET SEX

Tired of a listless sex life,
The man came right out and asked his wife
During a recent lovemaking session,
'How come you never tell me
When you have an orgasm?'
She glanced at him and replied,
'You're never home!'
 

CONFOUNDED SEX

A man was in a terrible accident,
And his 'manhood'
Was mangled and torn from his body.
His doctor assured him that modern medicine
Could give him back his manhood,
But that his insurance wouldn't cover the
Surgery since it was considered cosmetic.

The doctor said the cost would be
$3,500 for 'small,
$6,500 for 'medium,
And $14,000 for 'large.' 

The man was sure he would Want a medium or large,
But the doctor urged him to talk it over with his wife

Before he made any decision.
The man called his wife on the phone
And explained their options.

The doctor came back into the room,
And found the man looking dejected. 

'Well, what have the two of you decided?'
Asked the doctor. 

'She'd rather remodel the kitchen.'

WEDDING ANNIVERSARY SEX  

A husband and his wife had a bitter quarrel
On the day of their 40th wedding anniversary.
The husband yelled, 'When you die, I'm getting
You a headstone that reads:

'Here Lies My Wife - Cold As Ever'.'
'Yeah,' she replies, 'when you die,
I'm getting you a headstone that reads:
'Here Lies My Husband - Stiff At Last.'

WOMEN'S HUMOROUS SEX

My husband came home with a tube of K Y jelly
And said, 'This will make you happy tonight.'
He was right!
When he went out of the bedroom,
I squirted it all over the doorknobs.
He couldn't get back in.
 

ELDERLY SEX

One night, an 87 year-old woman
Came home from Bingo and found
Her 92 year-old husband
In bed with another woman.
She became violent and ended up pushing him
Off the balcony of their 20th floor,
Assisted living apartment, killing him instantly.
Brought before the court
On the charge of murder,
The judge asked her if she had
Anything to say in her defense.
She began coolly, 'Yes, your honor.
I figured that at 92,
If he could have sex...
He could also fly.'

LANGKAH MEWUJUDKAN KEYAKINAN DIRI

Kita perlulah yakin dan percaya dengan diri kita sendiri sebelum mengharapkan orang lain mempunyai keyakinan dan kepercayaan kepada kita. Oleh itu secara ringkasnya berikut merupakan 10 langkah yang ke arah mewujudkan keyakinan diri:

1. Anggapkan diri anda yang diciptakan oleh Allah adalah sama seperti orang lain.
2. Jika orang lain boleh buat, kenapa anda tidak boleh buat?
3. Kenal pasti kekurangan atau kelemahan yang ada pada diri anda dan baikinya.
4. Jangan takut-takut atau teragak-agak untuk melakukan sesuatu yang positif.
5. Elakkan perasaan malu yang tidak bertempat.
6. Lakukan riadah yang ringan sebelum melakukan sesuatu pekerjaan, ianya sebagai pemanas badan yang dapat mengaktifkan diri seseorang.
7. Sentiasa mengemas diri dan anggapkan diri anda adalah terbaik pada hari itu.
8. Apabila berinteraksi pandang tepat pada muka dan mata orang yang kita sedang berinteraksi dan gunakan sedikit pergerakan tangan untuk menerangkan sesuatu. Jangan terlalu kaku.
9. Apabila memulakan sesuatu tugas jangan memikirkan tentang masalah, tetapi fikirkan tentang hasilan yang akan diperolehi selepas tugas tersebut selesai.
10. Sentiasa peka terhadap waktu, jangan berlengah-lengah atau bertangguh dalam melaksanakan sesuatu tugas.

Bersama-samalah kita renungkan, insyaAllah anda dan saya akan dapat menilai betapa berharganya diri kita ini...
Sesungguhnya kita adalah insan yang mulia.
Insan yang mulia ini mempunyai potensi dan setiap potensi harus diusaha untuk mendapatkan hasilnya.

Meaning of Love

To love is to share life together
to build special plans just for two
to work side by side
and then smile with pride
as one by one, dreams all come true.

 

To love is to help and encourage
with smiles and sincere words of praise
to take time to share
to listen and care
in tender, affectionate ways.

 

To love is to have someone special
one who you can always depend
to be there through the years
sharing laughter and tears
as a partner, a lover, a friend.

 

To love is to make special memories
of moments you love to recall
of all the good things
that sharing life brings
love is the greatest of all.

 

I've learned the full meaning
of sharing and caring
and having my dreams all come true;
I've learned the full meaning
of being in love
by being and loving with you.

Mukjizatnya Azan

Mukjizatnya Azan 
Pesanan Semasa Mendengar Azan... 
Kematian itu pasti menjelma. Hanya masa dan waktunya yang tidak kita ketahui.. Cuba kita amati. Mengapa kebanyakan orang yang nazak, hampir ajal tidak dapat berkata apa-apa.... lidahnya kelu, keras dan hanya mimik mukanya yang menahan kesakitan 'sakaratul maut'. 

Diriwayatkan sebuah hadis yg bermaksud: 'Hendaklah kamu mendiamkan diri ketika azan, jika tidak Allah akan kelukan lidahnya ketika maut menghampirinya. 'Ini jelas menunjukkan, kita disarankan agar mendiamkan diri, jangan berkata apa-apa pun semasa azan berkumandang. 

Sebagai orang beragama Islam kita wajib menghormati azan. Banyak fadhilatnya. Jika lagu kebangsaan kita diajar agar berdiri tegak dan diamkan diri. Mengapa ketika azan kita tidak boleh mendiamkan diri? Lantas sesiapa yang berkata-kata ketika azan, Allah akan kelukan lidahnya ketika nazak . 
Kita takut dengan kelunya lidah kita semasa ajal hampir tiba maka kita tidak dapat mengucap kalimah 'Lailahaillallah..' yang mana sesiapa yang dapat mengucapkan kalimah ini ketika nyawanya akan dicabut Allah dgn izinNya menjanjikan syurga untuk mereka. 

Dari itu marilah kita sama-sama menghormati azan dan mohon kepada Allah supaya lidah ini tidak kelu semasa nyawa kita sedang dicabut.

'Ya Allah! Anugerahkanlah kematian kami dengan kematian yang baik lagi mulia, lancarkan lidah kami mengucap kalimah 'Lailahaillallah..' semasa sakaratul maut menghampiri kami. 
Amin..amin..amin Yarobbal a'lamin..' 

WASIAT NABI MUHAMMAD S.A.W. kepada SAIDINA ALI R.A.;
Wahai Ali, bagi orang 'ALIM itu ada 3 tanda2nya:
1) Jujur dalam berkata-kata.
2) Menjauhi segala yg haram.
3) Merendahkan diri. 

Wahai Ali, bagi orang yg JUJUR itu ada 3 tanda2nya:
1) Merahsiakan ibadahnya.
2) Merahsiakan sedekahnya.
3) Merahsiakan ujian yg menimpanya.

Wahai Ali, bagi org yg TAKWA itu ada 3 tanda2nya:
1) Takut berlaku dusta dan keji.
2) Menjauhi kejahatan.
3) Memohon yang halal kerana takut jatuh dalam keharaman.

Wahai Ali, bagi AHLI IBADAH itu ada 3 tanda2nya:
1) Mengawasi dirinya.
2) Menghisab dirinya.
3) Memperbanyakkan ibadah kepada Allah s.w.t. 

Wang $50 kelihatan begitu besar bila dibawa ke kotak derma masjid, tetapi begitu kecil bila kita bawa ke supermarket. 
45 minit terasa terlalu lama untuk berzikir tapi betapa pendeknya waktu itu untuk pertandingan bola sepak. 
Semua insan ingin memasuki syurga tetapi tidak ramai yang berfikir dan berbicara tentang bagaimana untuk memasukinya .

[DOA] Adab Dimudahkan MempeROleh Anak

Jika ORang tua ingin segeRa mempeROleh anak, jangan lupa selalu mendawamkan dOa beRikut:

رَبِّ لَا تَذَرْنِي فَرْدًا وَأَنْتَ خَيْرُ الْوَارِثِينَ

Rabbi laa tadzaR nii faRdaw wa anta khayRul waa Ritsiin

"Ya Tuhanku janganlah Engkau membiaRkan aku hidup seORang diRi dan Engkaulah PewaRis Yang Paling Baik” (Q.S. Al-Anbiyaa : 89).

Pada akhiR dOa suatu shalat Nabi SAW beRdOa kepada Ibunya Anas bin Malik:

اللَّهُمَّ أَكْثِرْ مَالَهُ وَوَلَدَهُ وَبَارِكْ لَهُ فِيهِ

Allahumma aktsiR maa lahu wawaladahuu wabaaRiklahu fiihi

"Ya Allah! PeRbanyakkanlah haRtanya dan peRbanyakkanlah anak-anaknya seRta beRikanlah kebeRkatan kepadanya" (H.R. BukhaRi Muslim)

Maka jika dOa itu dibaca untuk diRi sendiRi atau suami istRi, kalimatnya menjadi:

اللَّهُمَّ أَكْثِرْ مَاِلي(لَنَا) وَوَلَدِي (نَا) وَبَارِكْ لي (لَنَا) فِيهِ

Allahumma aktsiR maa lii (lanaa) wawaladii (naa) wabaaRiklii (lanaa) fiihi

“Ya Allah! PeRbanyakkanlah haRtaku dan peRbanyakkanlah anak-anakku seRta beRikanlah kebeRkatan kepadaku di dalamnya”

Adab AgaR Dimudahkan MempeROleh Anak:

1. Kesulitan mempeROleh anak bisa disebabkan Oleh tiga faktOR : medis, psikis, dan ROhani. Jika faktORnya kaRena medis (mandul), maka satu-satunya jalan adalah mOhOn keajaiban Allah.
2. Jika faktORnya adalah psikis (kejiwaan dan stRess), maka baik suami maupun istRi haRus menyediakan waktu santai selama bebeRapa lama sehingga daya keRja hORmOn nORmal kembali. FaktOR ini biasanya dialami Oleh paRa pekeRja keRas atau ORang yang punya masalah beRat dan selalu tegang sehingga sulit untuk Relaks walaupun sesaat. Ketegangan amat beRpengaRuh teRhadap daya keRja hOmOn untuk bisa membuahi atau menjadi buah.
3. Jika faktORnya adalah ROhani (banyak maksiat dan menyeleweng), maka jalan teRbaik adalah dengan beRtObat secaRa nasuha kepada Allah. Kemaksiatan pasti akan beRpengaRuh teRhadap ketentRaman hati. KetentRaman hati